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When I asked Donna out on our first date, she said something along the lines of "just so you know, I use a wheelchair" and I think it was a surprise when I said that wasn't an issue. I didn't pry After our first date, I offered her a lift home. I think that surprised her too _QueenOfNaps_/1560649559746961409
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It wasn't until we'd been dating for a month that I understood why Donna uses a wheelchair. It wasn't through prying or pushing for information, it came up as part of a conversation we were having.
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To me the important information was that Donna used a wheelchair, because that helped me make sure I looked at accessible locations and activities. Now that we're a couple and live together, it's helpful to know the "why" because I can know how it impacts her life